Dear Patron 2.

Dear Patron 1

As we engage in ministry to teenagers, it's crucial to understand the power of being authentic, available, and accountable.


Authenticity means living out what you preach and teaching only what you practice. In James 1:22 (NIV), we’re reminded: "Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says." Our teenagers pick up on authenticity, and the strength of your witness is in showing them a faith that’s lived out daily, not just on Sunday. Ask yourself, “Am I the same person behind the scenes as I am upfront?” Availability is all about presence. As Jesus showed us, true ministry happens through being with people, understanding their world, and sharing life with them. Teenagers may seem more interested in other things than in what we say, but when we show up for them consistently, we build trust. You need to know that your presence means more than any material gift. Accountability isn’t just a demand we make of others; it’s a mutual commitment. We’re brothers and sisters in the faith. Just as we expect accountability from the young ones we mentor, they should also see us being transparent and open. Show them that accountability is the glue that holds a Christian community together.


In this write-up, however, I want to focus specifically on authenticity.


How Real Are You?

   - How real are you in your role as a minister at school?

   - Does your testimony remain steady and genuine before the students and staff, or does it waver?


As much as we may expect authenticity from our leaders in our local churches, we are called to deliver that same realness in the schools we serve.


Recently, in our fellowship, we explored the book of Galatians. Here, Paul addresses a critical issue: the pressure placed on Gentile believers by Jewish Christians to keep the Mosaic law, a practice that challenged the essence of their faith. Peter, a central figure and leader in the church, faltered in this matter, adjusting his behavior depending on his audience—one way among Jews, another among Gentiles. Paul saw this inconsistency and boldly confronted him, stressing the need for a steady, unwavering faith. (Galatians 2:11-14). Are we living consistently, no matter who is watching?


Reflection Questions:

1. What should you START doing? - Is there a new approach to connecting with students authentically that you could try?

2. What should you CONTINUE doing? - Reflect on what’s already building trust and spiritual growth. What’s bearing fruit that you should maintain?

3. What should you CHANGE? - Are there ways in which you’re not fully consistent or present? What needs an adjustment to become more authentic?

4. What are you doing WELL and should keep doing? - What’s already working in terms of your realness and impact on students?


The holidays give us a moment to recharge and reflect. As patrons, you hold a unique place in guiding, influencing, and discipling young people. In just a few years, these teenagers will be shaping homes, businesses, and communities. How they live, love, and lead will be shaped by the example you set today.


So, as you enjoy this time, keep these reflection points in mind. Remember, the seeds of authenticity, presence, and accountability you plant today will bear fruit tomorrow—perhaps in ways we cannot yet imagine.


Blessings to you as you minister with a heart of integrity and faithfulness.

Dear Patron 3

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